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A white canopy at the end of the viewing platform on Marine Parade in Napier, looking out over the Pacific Ocean

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12 first date ideas in Hawke's Bay

Sunshine, Art Deco streets, wineries and a long seafront make Hawke's Bay an easy place to plan a date. Here are twelve ideas across Napier, Hastings and Havelock North.

  • Updated 3 November 2026
  • 3 min read
  • 12 ideas
On this page 6 sections
  1. What makes a good first date
  2. Napier
  3. Hastings and Havelock North
  4. Wine and day trips
  5. Tips for dating in Hawke's Bay
  6. Common questions

What makes a good first date

Keep it public, easy and short enough that it can end politely, with the option to keep going if it's going well. Napier and Hastings are about 20 minutes apart, so pick one area for a first date rather than driving between them.

Napier

  1. An Art Deco walk

    Napier city centre on Google Maps

    Napier was rebuilt in the Art Deco style after the 1931 earthquake. Wander the streets yourselves or join a guided walk.

    • Free
  2. Marine Parade

    Napier on Google Maps

    A long seafront with gardens, the Pania of the Reef statue and plenty of places to sit.

    • Free
  3. National Aquarium of New Zealand

    Marine Parade on Google Maps

    Something to look at the whole time, which takes the pressure off. Good on a rainy day.

    • Rainy day
  4. MTG Hawke's Bay

    Napier on Google Maps

    The region's museum, art gallery and theatre, right in the middle of Napier.

    • Rainy day
  5. Bluff Hill Lookout

    Bluff Hill on Google Maps

    Views over the port and the bay. Bring a coffee.

    • Free
  6. Dinner in Ahuriri

    Ahuriri on Google Maps

    Waterfront restaurants and bars in Napier's old port area.

    • Evening

Hastings and Havelock North

  1. Hawke's Bay Farmers' Market

    Hastings on Google Maps

    Sunday mornings at the showgrounds in Hastings. Graze your way around the stalls together.

  2. Te Mata Peak

    Havelock North on Google Maps

    Drive or walk up for one of the best views in the region, over the plains to the sea.

    • Free
  3. Coffee in Havelock North

    Havelock North on Google Maps

    A small village centre full of cafés, good for a relaxed coffee date.

Wine and day trips

  1. A cellar door tasting

    Around the region on Google Maps

    Hawke's Bay is one of New Zealand's main wine regions. Pick a winery with a café, and sort out a sober driver first.

  2. Hawke's Bay Trails by bike

    Around the region on Google Maps

    Flat cycle trails link the coast, the wineries and the villages. Hire bikes for a relaxed day out.

    • Day trip
  3. The gannets at Cape Kidnappers

    Clifton on Google Maps

    Tours run out to one of the world's largest mainland gannet colonies, usually in the warmer months. Book ahead.

    • Book ahead
    • Day trip

Tips for dating in Hawke's Bay

  • Meet in the middle. One of you in Napier, the other in Hastings? Matcha's meet in the middle planner suggests a café, bar or restaurant about halfway between you, open when you want to go, without either of you sharing where you live.
  • Plan for the sun. Hawke's Bay is one of the sunniest regions in the country, so bring water and a hat on outdoor dates.
  • Sort transport before wine. If the date involves a tasting, plan a sober driver, a tour or bikes.
  • Use the flat. Napier and Hastings are flat, so walking or biking between spots is easy.

Common questions

What's a good free first date in Hawke's Bay?

Try an Art Deco walk, Marine Parade or Bluff Hill Lookout. They cost nothing, so add a coffee or an ice cream and you've got an easy first date.

What can you do on a rainy first date in Hawke's Bay?

Try National Aquarium of New Zealand or MTG Hawke's Bay. They work whatever the weather.

Where can you go for an evening first date in Hawke's Bay?

For an evening date, try dinner in Ahuriri.

How do you pick a first date spot halfway between you in Hawke's Bay?

Use Meet in the middle in Matcha. Choose coffee, drinks or food and a time, and it suggests a café, bar or restaurant about halfway between you, without either of you sharing where you live.

Photo: The Marine Parade viewing platform in Napier by Pseudopanax (CC BY 4.0), cropped.

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